For Kids
For some reason, when we talk about naturalness (natural beauty in particular), the following associations often pop up in your head: girls without makeup, never visiting a hairdresser, cheerful fat girls with cute folds, and happy, in dimensionless jeans, the mother of two children. Well, okay. All this is natural: there are cakes with sweet tea, go home with books and TV shows, raise children, after all, giving up to the end to this happy family whirlpool.
Such naturalness for many is an explanation of their own laziness, an excuse.
The stereotypes of naturalness are that we forgive ourselves a lot – the lack of willpower and laziness spike on circumstances. Hence the cliches who, frankly, outlived themselves:
– if you are married, then you can forget about manicure, hairdresser and gym – the main goal is achieved.
– if you are in your thirties, then you can forgive yourself plus two sizes in clothes
– if you have children – overweight, tummy and flabby skin – this is normal
– if you are on the decree, then ungroomed skin and hair – not scary, because you fulfill your main duty.
Some things really do not power us – wrinkles, incision of the eyes and shape of the chest, unnecessarily wide or narrow hips or short fingers. The art of being a woman is to skillfully make yourself beautiful so that it is not noticeably surrounding. Recall Coco Chanel: “If a woman has not become a beauty by the age of thirty, then she is a fool.” Abruptly, but the share of truth is very large.
For me, naturalness is sincerity, first of all. When you’re not ashamed of what you look like. And you do yourself on your own.
If you are engaged in sports and monitor your meals, is this not natural? If you study the history of the costume and what clothes fit your type of figure, is it natural? If you work on your psychological state and know how it affects your outer shell, is it natural? Reading, watching, learning, achieving new goals – that’s all – naturally and perfectly! To make yourself better, to improve your body and your mind – this is the real beauty of man.
The times when a man must be mighty and hair have passed, as well as a woman – with steep hips to continue the genus. Do not explain that if even if men should monitor themselves, then women – especially…
Don’t be tempted, don’t relax. Naturalness is not an excuse to others that “I look so bad today.” This is the result of working on yourself, conscious behavior and constant movement in their goals. Well, everyone sets goals for himself. Open your consciousness, be inspired and expand your horizons – there is so much unrecognized and new to you. You’re better and prettier than you think! The main thing is not to stand still!